There were no guarantees,
When I sat on my mother’s lap,
As we rode to Stony Lake;
Her hands fidgeted
For reasons I could not understand.
Dad drove down roads of love,
Big…grandiose…powerful,
I couldn’t have much more,
But there were no guarantees.
Three older brothers,
Who found creative ways
To exclude me,
And one wonderful, fluffy,
Big English setter.
It seemed as though the scenario
Would always be there.
And when we camped,
I watched my parents talk upside down
In the camper
As my brothers tented elsewhere.
All this, and there were
No guarantees.
I had a grandmother
Who told me I missed
the best part of the potato
by not eating the skin,
And I showed her my “writing.”
She said, “That’s nice,” and
Tossed it into the wastebasket.
It was then I knew
There were no guarantees
That anyone would like my “writing”.
I made the loops, the dots, and crosses.
I thought my writing was just as real
As anyone’s who knew how.
We had a girl in kindergarten,
Who had tap shoes and tap-danced;
So I told everyone I could dance, too,
Because I’d tested my natural rhythm.
But there were no guarantees,
Because the children laughed,
And the teacher laughed,
(I never liked her.)
When I danced…
There were no guarantees
That anyone would like my “dancing”.
I thought my rhythms, my moves,
The sound of my feet,
And above all, the sheer joy
I felt while dancing
Were just as real as anyone
Who knew how.
When Dad got sick and felt
He couldn’t preach anymore,
Though he did better on
His way down from the pulpit
Than ever before,
There were no guarantees
He’d even have a job.
When he got frantic, my mom
Said, “Be not anxious.”
Her prayers lead him to the job.
I’m her age now, but
There was no guarantee for her.
She landed in the hospital
And nearly died….
And Dad got frantic again
When I came home too late
(I hadn’t wanted to –
I’d kept telling my friend
I had to go.)
And told me how Mom
Almost didn’t make it,
No guarantees I’d keep my mother.
Visited her in the hospital
--No glasses on – I thought,
“She’s kind of pretty,”
The first I’d ever noticed.
Which made my oldest brother
Come home from the seminary for good,
Because there were no guarantees
He’d become the minister
My parents expected him to be,
Nor that he’ d (nor my other brothers) agree.
Even the big English setter
Had a heart attack
At my friends’ farm,
And there was no guarantee
I’d get to keep her.
Even Dad was upset,
As she died in my mother’s arms
In the basement.
Mom grew from that,
Learned animals had souls,
And Lucky was in “Dog Heaven,”
No matter what Mom was taught before.
And when my youngest brother
Got assigned to Viet Nam,
I was told I cried, but I couldn’t remember;
There was no guarantee
He’d come back,
…And he didn’t. *
And when my father grieved,
There was no guarantee
He’d be able, with poor health,
To stand the grief,
…And
he didn’t.
And finally, Mom, who’d flirted earlier with death
Got older and older and weaker;
There was no guarantee
Thirty years later,
I could keep her.
Now, the three of us are left
And our families, we have born.
And we know
No guarantees for any of us.
We disagree and banter,
But we know we’d better
Treasure one another,
Because we’re going
Where there
is a guarantee
We’ll be together
In the Spirit World;
And like vaporous clouds, raining,
Perhaps returning
To the earth plane
Every once in awhile…
Forever…
*taken from a quote from Kubler-Ross and Buscaglia,
a girl writing a letter about Viet Nam: "If I had only..."
👵Then, heading for home, find myself in a Chinese intersection,
🎎 and a busy one at that. Found out, it's survivable. The chicken place is closed,
🐔 due to the power outage. It took me awhile to focus on the explanation from a distance. Put 2 and 2 together, the previous intersection with no lights
🚫 was just on the corner. This town is like off the grid; the grid breaks down, and sometimes even the waterline, 
🚣♀️but that's yet another story. Now, I understand, fierce winds
🌩️are coming across the Atlantic, well, Lake Michigan. Brace yourselves!
